Prude Violet Starr Gets Wild At Her Bachelorette Party Ive always billed myself as a lesbian. Honestly, Ive never been with a man, but Ive always fantasized about trying it out. My lesbian friends would never understand, so Ive always kept it a secret. But, when I told my polyamorous friends about my fantasy, they said theyd love to help me make it come true! Im Violet Starr, and this is my confession.